🛡️ COMMUNITY RULES & SAFETY
Your safety comes first. Read these rules and safety guidelines before you begin corresponding.
Community Rules
Adults only
Beyond Beautiful is for adults 18 and older. The correspondence service, member accounts, and paid features are intended for adult use only.
Authentic members
Member photos must be real, current, and honest — no fake, distorted, stolen, or heavily misleading images. Members go through review before they appear on the site, and misleading members are removed.
Protect your personal information
Use a first name (or nickname) and a P.O. Box if possible. Never share your phone number, financial details, passwords, or home address until you deeply know and trust someone.
Money requests
Beyond Beautiful does not require you to send money to another member to maintain a friendship or correspondence. If someone asks you for money, treat it as a red flag and report it.
Romance scams
Be cautious if someone declares strong feelings very quickly, promises a future together, or pivots conversation toward financial needs. These are classic manipulation patterns.
Manipulation & red flags
Guilt-tripping, urgency ("send it today or else"), stories that keep changing, or pressure to keep the relationship secret are warning signs. You can always stop writing. You owe no one a reply.
Never send
Money, financial information, passwords, photos of your ID, or anything else sensitive — to anyone you don't know and trust.
Reporting a member
Use the 🚩 REPORT A CONCERN button or contact us directly. We review every report and can remove members that violate our rules.
Reporting inappropriate messages
Letters submitted through our service are reviewed before mailing. If you receive an inappropriate reply, report it and we will act.
Blocking someone
You can stop corresponding with anyone at any time, for any reason. Simply stop writing and tell us if you want their membership flagged.
Institutional mail rules
Every facility has its own mail rules (allowed items, envelope types, content restrictions). We follow them; letters that violate facility rules cannot be delivered.
🚩 REPORT A CONCERN
See something worrying? A money request, scam attempt, harassment, impersonation, threat, or an attempt to circumvent institutional mail rules? Tell us — every report is reviewed.
Site rules: harassment, scams, inappropriate content, impersonation, threats, and attempts to circumvent institutional mail rules are grounds for immediate removal.